On December 23, I flew from Rome up to Gatwick Airport near London, UK. From there, I made every viable attempt to make it up to Lincoln, where my friend Brian lives. He'd offered me refuge from the onslaught of all that is foreign, and to join me on the final leg of my trip. Unfortunately, life is what happens while we're busy making plans.
The train from Gatwick to Stevenage went very smoothly. From Stevenage to Retford, however, things didn't go so well. A gentleperson, finding life far too difficult during this holiday season, chose to take their life by stepping in front of a different high-speed train north of Stevenage. This brought us to an abrupt stop while the authorities worked through what happened. For 101 minutes, we waited to hear how we would proceed. By then, I'd missed my connecting train in Retford, which meant it would be a solid hour plus wait for the next. Brian, gods bless this man's soul, suggested that I disembark in Grantham where he would drive down to pick me up. This worked beautifully.
(My heart goes out to the good gentle who chose the way out that they did, as well as the conductor forced to deal with such a horrific event themselves. It's a really hard time of year, folks. If you need help, please, I know it's hard, but reach out. Pick up your phone, text a friend, or call 911 and tell them what's going on. You're worth fighting for.)
The next several days, Brian did his level best to help me kick back, relax, and simply enjoy down time. As you all know, I'd been pushing myself stupidly hard, and this reprieve allowed me to recoup some seriously necessary spoons.
On the first day, after a leisurely morning in, we drove into Lincoln (he lives in a suburb thereof) to see the Lincoln Cathedral. It turns out this was the only day while I was in the area that it was open. The church was stunning.
In the Cathedral, an imp lives. He's hidden well, but a keen eye (and reading the little plaques scattered throughout the church) will help you find him.
The Cathedral has over a dozen chapels inside it, each in a covey off to the side. For the first time, I found a section of chapels dedicated to Her Majesties' Royal Army, Navy, and Air Force. Each of these chapels held a listing of those local lads and lasses lost in various battles, as well as various plaques of remembrance and prayers for currently serving men and women. Out of respect, I didn't take any pictures of these chapels, but I did stop and say a small prayer while I stood in the chapels, wiping away a few tears as I left.
As Brian and I walked around the Cathedral, I marveled at the stained glass windows, the incredible wood and stone work, and just how freaking massive this church was. I get that it's a Cathedral. I really do, But dang...
After we'd spent an hour exploring the church, we wandered down the second most steep road in the UK, or so Brian claims.
It was most definitely steep, and despite Brian's obvious annoyance, we walked down to the bottom of the hill to see what we would see. There the street leveled out, lined on either side with a variety of shops and restaurants, all bustling with last-minute shoppers. As I'm not much of a shopper, I turned around to head back up the hill. Brian, needless to say, wasn't happy, but being the game guy that he is, went along. (He did make me stop halfway up to rest, er, enjoy the view, though.)
We went home and spent the evening making dinner and watching bad holiday romance movies. (I told you Brian was a game guy and a saint among men. :D )
The next day, Christmas Day, we went in search of ruins. The sun only shines for about five hours up this way at this time of year, but the sky was clear, the air was crisp but not cold, and we were ready to explore. First, Brian took me to see a Knight's Templer tower.
This tower is all that's left of what was once a large and thriving castle and church. It sits in the middle of a working farm, but as is the way in the UK, is open to the public so long as you're respectful of the residents. We went inside, and though it was obvious that there has been some restoration work, the bulk of the tower remains as it was 900 years ago under the watchful eyes of the greatest knights known to the UK.
From the Templer tower, we drove east to the ruins of an abbey called Tupholm, or Sheep Hill. Funnily enough, the field where the ruins are was filled with beautifully fluffy sheep.
The abbey had been one of seven different churches and abbeys in this area, though it was the largest by far. When King Henry VIII ordered the dissolution of all Catholic churches, the abbey became a grand manor for a few hundred years. At some point in the 18th century, the manor was abandoned, falling into ruins. Then, in the early 20th century, the remaining wall of the abbey was built up and into a stretch of small homes. Those, too, were abandoned and all that was left was a single wall with a myriad of different patchwork stones, creating a few ruins to explore.
Our final destination for the day was to the birthplace of King Henry IV of England, Bolingbroke Castle. This one fascinated me. I mean, okay, yeah, the other two were freaking amazing, but these ruins were the outline of the castle walls, with the moat still circling them. Plaques explained the different towers, what they were used for, and where the keep would have been inside the walls.
Brian and I walked along the tops of the remaining walls, which were easily four feet wide, and took turns taking pictures of the different areas. The sun streamed through the remaining windows, shining on the brilliant green moss and grass. It took my breathe away.
We drove back to his place, made a Christmas dinner of heated up savory pies and mince pies with brandy sauce, and then settled in for a marathon of Star Trek Discovery.
On Boxing Day, we rose relatively late because we had no real agenda other than going to see Star Wars. This was to be both Brian's and my first movie in the UK, as he hadn't been to a movie since he moved here last year.
Things I learned about movie theaters in the UK:
The train from Gatwick to Stevenage went very smoothly. From Stevenage to Retford, however, things didn't go so well. A gentleperson, finding life far too difficult during this holiday season, chose to take their life by stepping in front of a different high-speed train north of Stevenage. This brought us to an abrupt stop while the authorities worked through what happened. For 101 minutes, we waited to hear how we would proceed. By then, I'd missed my connecting train in Retford, which meant it would be a solid hour plus wait for the next. Brian, gods bless this man's soul, suggested that I disembark in Grantham where he would drive down to pick me up. This worked beautifully.
(My heart goes out to the good gentle who chose the way out that they did, as well as the conductor forced to deal with such a horrific event themselves. It's a really hard time of year, folks. If you need help, please, I know it's hard, but reach out. Pick up your phone, text a friend, or call 911 and tell them what's going on. You're worth fighting for.)
The next several days, Brian did his level best to help me kick back, relax, and simply enjoy down time. As you all know, I'd been pushing myself stupidly hard, and this reprieve allowed me to recoup some seriously necessary spoons.
On the first day, after a leisurely morning in, we drove into Lincoln (he lives in a suburb thereof) to see the Lincoln Cathedral. It turns out this was the only day while I was in the area that it was open. The church was stunning.
In the Cathedral, an imp lives. He's hidden well, but a keen eye (and reading the little plaques scattered throughout the church) will help you find him.
The Cathedral has over a dozen chapels inside it, each in a covey off to the side. For the first time, I found a section of chapels dedicated to Her Majesties' Royal Army, Navy, and Air Force. Each of these chapels held a listing of those local lads and lasses lost in various battles, as well as various plaques of remembrance and prayers for currently serving men and women. Out of respect, I didn't take any pictures of these chapels, but I did stop and say a small prayer while I stood in the chapels, wiping away a few tears as I left.
As Brian and I walked around the Cathedral, I marveled at the stained glass windows, the incredible wood and stone work, and just how freaking massive this church was. I get that it's a Cathedral. I really do, But dang...
After we'd spent an hour exploring the church, we wandered down the second most steep road in the UK, or so Brian claims.
It was most definitely steep, and despite Brian's obvious annoyance, we walked down to the bottom of the hill to see what we would see. There the street leveled out, lined on either side with a variety of shops and restaurants, all bustling with last-minute shoppers. As I'm not much of a shopper, I turned around to head back up the hill. Brian, needless to say, wasn't happy, but being the game guy that he is, went along. (He did make me stop halfway up to rest, er, enjoy the view, though.)
We went home and spent the evening making dinner and watching bad holiday romance movies. (I told you Brian was a game guy and a saint among men. :D )
The next day, Christmas Day, we went in search of ruins. The sun only shines for about five hours up this way at this time of year, but the sky was clear, the air was crisp but not cold, and we were ready to explore. First, Brian took me to see a Knight's Templer tower.
This tower is all that's left of what was once a large and thriving castle and church. It sits in the middle of a working farm, but as is the way in the UK, is open to the public so long as you're respectful of the residents. We went inside, and though it was obvious that there has been some restoration work, the bulk of the tower remains as it was 900 years ago under the watchful eyes of the greatest knights known to the UK.
From the Templer tower, we drove east to the ruins of an abbey called Tupholm, or Sheep Hill. Funnily enough, the field where the ruins are was filled with beautifully fluffy sheep.
The abbey had been one of seven different churches and abbeys in this area, though it was the largest by far. When King Henry VIII ordered the dissolution of all Catholic churches, the abbey became a grand manor for a few hundred years. At some point in the 18th century, the manor was abandoned, falling into ruins. Then, in the early 20th century, the remaining wall of the abbey was built up and into a stretch of small homes. Those, too, were abandoned and all that was left was a single wall with a myriad of different patchwork stones, creating a few ruins to explore.
Our final destination for the day was to the birthplace of King Henry IV of England, Bolingbroke Castle. This one fascinated me. I mean, okay, yeah, the other two were freaking amazing, but these ruins were the outline of the castle walls, with the moat still circling them. Plaques explained the different towers, what they were used for, and where the keep would have been inside the walls.
Brian and I walked along the tops of the remaining walls, which were easily four feet wide, and took turns taking pictures of the different areas. The sun streamed through the remaining windows, shining on the brilliant green moss and grass. It took my breathe away.
We drove back to his place, made a Christmas dinner of heated up savory pies and mince pies with brandy sauce, and then settled in for a marathon of Star Trek Discovery.
On Boxing Day, we rose relatively late because we had no real agenda other than going to see Star Wars. This was to be both Brian's and my first movie in the UK, as he hadn't been to a movie since he moved here last year.
Things I learned about movie theaters in the UK:
- They don't have butter for the popcorn - none, zilch, nada - and if you ask, they're frightfully apologetic but still have none to give.
- Their candy section includes some prepackaged candy a la the US, but they also have a bank of loose candy to the side that you can buy by the cup. Oh hell yeah!
- While concessions do not have butter for the popcorn, they do have sweet-and-salty flavoring which almost made up for the lack of greasy oil that I prefer. Almost.
- There are rude people here just as there are in the US, and there are also shushers here, just as there are in the US. Gotta love people no matter where you are.
Loved the movie, but I won't get in to that here. Suffice it to say, it worked for me. Brian had minimal nits to pick, but overall, he liked it, too.
We headed back to his place, where we made a quick dinner out of leftovers, then settled in to watch more Star Trek. At a certain point, it got a little too dark for me, so we switched to Elizabeth Taylor as Cleopatra. By the intermission, we were both done with that, so moved on to a great sitcom called Upstart Crow about Shakespeare. We both fell asleep on the couch.
This morning, we walked into Lincoln, hopped a train, and headed up to Edinburgh, where we are now. I'll post about that later.
It's amazing to me how much being in a foreign country - in this case two - demanded of me. As I was trying to explain to Brian, while I was in Spain and Italy, I never felt that I had any real downtime for my brain. At all times, I was constantly trying to think of the right phrase, the right question, the right courtesy thing to do. That taxes a person. Add to that my physical effort, and by the time I flew to the UK, my mind and body were fried. The three days of relaxation with my friend, doing the bare minimum but still exploring, allowed me to reset for a bit. I now feel ready to finish my trip with the right frame of mind and the energy to do it well.
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